People generally measure sphincter-muscle strength in two ways.
So let’s dispel some harmful myths and put those fanny-based fears to rest. To assist, I’ve enlisted the expertise of not one, but two LGBTQ butt doctors as well as one experienced anal sex advocate, author, and sex shop owner. Almost instantly, I was taken aback by the volume of folks who wrote me desperate that their holes were-or would soon become-loose as a result of receptive anal intercourse.Īs a radical empath who despises sexual shame in any shape or form, I want to wax poetic on the power and resilience of our buttholes. I became particularly invested in this topic after working with a sexual wellness company that launched a service called Text-a-Sexpert, in which a fellow sex educator and myself would answer people’s personal sex questions via text message.
